A few weeks ago, I wrote a socialization plan I came up with for my time in Connecticut. We’re at the halfway point, so here’s an update on where I’m at and where I’m going.
1) Spend three days a week writing at the library to get me out of the house
Rationale: Although I frequent the library to check out books (ALL THOSE BOOKS ARE FREE FOR ME TO READ AT MY LEISURE!!!!), I have not written a single word while there, nor have I ever headed there with the purpose of doing so.
Reflection: I’m kind of okay with this fail. My novel writing has ceased (again), but I seem to have finally gotten into a rhythm with blogging and my short stories keep a comin’. I also now write about a full-page of stream of consciousness journaling on a daily basis and all of this writing takes place at the kitchen table. I did 99.9% of my writing in Johnsonville, NY, at a kitchen table, so I seem to be drawn towards writing in big, open spaces with lots of natural sunlight. I’m also getting out of the house in other ways (see point #5), so I’m not feeling isolated at all.
2) Volunteer at the library (that is, if they’ll have me for just two months)
Rationale: In addition to not writing at the library, I have not done one lick of volunteer work for them. I didn’t even ask because as you’ll see in points #3 and #5, other opportunities presented themselves.
Ever heard the expression “you plan; God laughs?”
Yeah, I’m pretty sure that’s what happened here.
3) Seek other short-term volunteer opportunities as they present themselves
Rationale: It’s not short-term, but ya’ll are looking at the newest social media team member for the Young Adult Review Network (YARN)! YARN is an online literary journal devoted to the young adult genre. As someone who hopes to someday have YA novels published, this is an excellent opportunity to read some outstanding work in the genre. Plus, it gets me using twitter, which is necessary in publishing and this is volunteer work I can do anywhere in the world. So, it fits in perfectly with our wandering lifestyle.
4) Attend a weekly writers’ group
Rationale: Every Wednesday morning, I attend a Creative Writing Group at the Norfolk Church of Christ Congregational UCC. In addition, twice a month I head to the Simsbury Library to attend a Society for Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators critique group. What’s fantastic about this group is all the women in it are writing specifically for children and the feedback I’ve gotten has been excellent. Both writing groups have been incredibly welcoming and I already know I’m going to miss them when we move (much like the other writing groups I’ve been privileged to attend, including the Durham Writers’ Group in NC and the Schenectady NY Public Library Wednesday Afternoon Writing Group – I LOVE AND MISS YA’LL!).
5) Work at short-term, limited employment jobs where I can see my contributions to society;
Rationale: As I wrote about a few weeks ago, I started work at a café in town. As I’ve never had a service job before, I’m struggling with the in’s and out’s of the job, but I do make up for it with enthusiasm. I still find great satisfaction in providing lunch for individuals and even simple things like sweeping the floor and doing the dishes feel worthwhile because it’s helping the café owner present our best to the Norfolk community.
I’m also meeting some interesting people. Just today I met someone who has published two books. His fiction book is entitled Hypnogogia – A Life of Dreams, and as someone who has had vivid dreams as a symptom of narcolepsy I am intrigued by a story that blends dreams with reality.
He and his wife were two of the loveliest people I’ve met so far and I’m delighted that he asked me to call him with my contact information so he can send me a free copy of the book!
They also gave me a 30% tip which is AWESOME when you are working at a café lunch counter.
The only downside to this job is that I feel physically exhausted at the end of the work day, so I haven’t been working on my novels when I get home in the afternoons. I’m still prioritizing losing the post-PA weight gain from my parents’ house with morning cardio and strength training so there goes that writing time.
It also doesn’t help that my husband and I experienced our first and subsequently second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eighth, ninth, and tenth tastes of apple cider doughnuts, but if you’re in New England for the fall, shouldn’t you experience such a delectable sweet and crunchy treat? Good thing I was already exercising, but what it comes down to is exercise is still taking precedence over some of my writing (not all; see point #1).
6) Find a spiritual community that encourages self-reflection and growth.
Rationale: To quote U2, “I still haven’t found what I’m looking for.” Yet, and I refuse to give up. One promising community is a health food store up the way in Winsted (about a 15-minute drive) that offers a Restore Your Soul Dancing Yoga Class for the next three weeks. I’ve never done dancing yoga before, but we’ll see what it’s like. If anything, what I’ve learned so far in CT is to keep an open mind and try new things.
So there you have it, my mid-CT-term report card. What do you think? Have I graded myself too harshly (many of my former students can relate) or do you think I should be more lenient? And if you enjoyed this post, please subscribe to my blog. Then I can get an A when I evaluate my blogging endeavors!
As a member of your Simsbury group–all I can say is I don’t want you to leave CT!! You are a wonderful addition to our group, and I look forward to reading more manuscripts! I’m a believer in drafting multiple monthly goals–the more the merrier. You’re doing more than fine.
Thanks! Maybe we can all partner up for NaNoWriMo? Even though I won’t be in town, it would be nice to actually know people trying to reach the same goals.
I’ll give an A for all the learning experience y’all r having. My recommendation is enjoy you life together and just breathe
A definite A+ for doughnut eating! Thanks for reading and commenting. I love you 🙂